
Good Language Learners Demystified: A Look at the Qualities That Make Them Successful
The year was 1975. One simple question launched dozens of studies: What makes a good language learner?
That’s right, scientists Joan Rubin and David Stern sought the answer to this question long before you got fed up with trying to learn Spanish for the third time.
The good news is that they found some answers!
They and subsequent researchers found key commonalities among successful language learners. The goal was to study good language learners to see if their methods could be taught to not-so-good language learners or used to help teachers reach language learning students.
The most important takeaway of their research was this: Anybody can become good at learning languages. Gasp!
That’s great, but how do you do it? Well, you need to observe and copy the secrets and techniques of the most successful language learners.
Start by thinking of a good language learner that you already know.
We often marvel at good language learners, wondering how they pick up languages so fast.
Unfortunately, that’s often where doubt starts to sink in, and we ask ourselves questions like, “How’d that guy learn German in a year when I’ve been studying it for the past seven years and can still hardly introduce myself? What is this sorcery?”
Less-successful language learners are sometimes even in awe of good language learners, almost like they think they’re mystical gurus, possessors of some rare and special knowledge. “Give us the keys to your exceptional skill, oh Enlightened One,” we want to say.
But what if everyone knew the qualities of a good language learner?
By studying what makes the best language learners tick, we can all understand how certain attributes prime you for successful language learning, which ultimately demystifies the process.
Behold: Those coveted characteristics are a mystery no more! I’ve compiled a comprehensive list of qualities that make good language learners successful and, more importantly, ways you can translate those qualities to success in your own language learning.
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You’d be hard-pressed to find a good language learner lacking in these qualities. Read on to see which ones you demonstrate well, and which you could be better at.
1. Good Language Learners Have Plenty of Courage
Good language learners have no room for inhibitions.
When you see these learners happily chatting away, they appear to be confident and unafraid of looking like a fool when speaking.
For example, when they don’t know the word for “telephone,” good language learners place an imaginary telephone to their ears. When they don’t know how to conjugate a verb correctly, they say it anyway.
Fear doesn’t stop good language learners because they know that practicing, even if done imperfectly, is the only way they’ll get better.
They also have tough skin. They don’t quit the first time they get laughed at for committing a language faux pas.
Sure, they might get embarrassed because a native speaker doesn’t understand them, but they just dust their shoulders off and work to improve their pronunciation. They don’t run from their mistakes, they learn from them, and they have the courage to keep on going like a boss.
They’re not afraid to guess. Good language learners use context clues to guess at the meaning of unfamiliar words and phrases.
If they hear the sentence “He lives in a big mansion,” but don’t know the word “mansion,” they can guess it means a really big house! They also create new words if they have to.
For example, they’ll guess that a newly-learned English verb ends with “-ed” in the simple past tense—even if they know there are many exceptions to that “rule”—and they understand that people will likely understand what they’re talking about, even if it’s not grammatically correct.
They accept the fact that nobody’s perfect, so they take these risks on a regular basis. They realize that in most cases, communication is more important than correctness.
2. Good Language Learners Use Their Keen Observation Skills
Good language learners recognize and learn from their own mistakes and the mistakes of others.
Here good listening and self-awareness come into play. You can’t correct mistakes you don’t know you’re making, so good language learners pay attention and adjust accordingly.
If they conjugate a word incorrectly, they’ll note that it’s something they need to work on. They listen and learn from native speakers as well, copying them as closely as possible.
They pick up on nonverbal clues. If there’s one thing you’ll learn about learning a new language, it’s that there’s a lot more to communication than the words we say.
Good language learners take note of facial expressions, body language and tone of voice to understand how someone’s saying something when they don’t know what they’re saying. With a combination of verbal and nonverbal clues, they can take educated guesses at the meaning.
They identify patterns in the target language. They work to understand the language as a system, identifying key patterns that make learning the language easier and more like the way native speakers learned it.
For example, good learners of Spanish pick up on the fact that, unlike English, the definite articles el and la are commonly used in front of nouns in a sentence. And good learners of English will learn that we really like to use the word “it.“
3. Good Language Learners Are Curious and Creative When Processing New Information
Good language learners ask a lot of questions.
How do you use present continuous in the third person? What’s the meaning of this slang word? Why do you say this word in one situation, and that other word in a different situation?
These questions are how they learn more of the target language almost every day. They’re naturally curious and always strive to take in more vocabulary and grammar.
They have a unique way of learning that’s tailored to themselves. There are different kinds of good language learners just like there are different kinds of general learners (for example, there are auditory, visual and kinesthetic learners, among others).
Over time, good language learners learn the methods that work best for them to remember new vocabulary and grammar structures. Depending on the learner, they might use flashcards, videos or audio recordings to learn, to name just a few techniques. This helps them process new information quickly. Or they might use an immersion program such as FluentU.
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Good language learners are good at improvisation. They creatively use words, phrases and structures they already know to say what they need to say. Instead of pulling out the translation app, they’ll use “circumlocution,” or the roundabout way of saying things.
For example, if you don’t know the word for “a watch,” you can say “the thing that shows the time.” This promotes fluency as well as self-expression.
4. Good Language Learners Are Abundantly Patient
Good language learners become comfortable with ambiguity.
They don’t need to know the meaning of a new word right away, and they don’t worry when they don’t understand 100% of what a speaker is saying.
There won’t be much learning going on if you tune out (or freak out) as soon as you hear an unfamiliar word. Good language learners are patient enough to understand that one day they’ll be able to have conversations in which they know all the words.
They’re also patient with themselves. They know it takes time to learn a language, so they don’t get frustrated easily.
Good language learners accept the language for what it is, forgiving and being kind to themselves if they don’t progress as quickly as they’d like. They don’t put a lot of pressure on themselves because they see learning the language as a journey. They go with the flow, understanding that things like grammar are not the be-all and end-all.
5. Good Language Learners Are Largely Self-motivated
Good language learners understand their “why.”
Whether they need the target language to get a better job, to get into grad school overseas, to survive in a foreign country or simply to connect with their family or roots, good language learners are deeply motivated. Their reason for learning a language often goes beyond getting a good grade in a class. They take language learning very, very seriously.
That motivation leads them to learn independently and practice consistently. Teachers don’t have to force them to conjugate verbs each night or to practice with a language partner on the weekends.
Good language learners actively seek out opportunities to practice the language outside the classroom. They practice as much as possible.
What’s more, they genuinely enjoy learning the target language. It’s fun, even!
That’s why it’s important to choose the right language. You won’t stick with a language that makes you yawn. And in case you were wondering, that also explains why you’re probably not fluent in the language they forced you to take back in high school.
Learning from the Good Language Learner
I hope you can now see how learning a new language isn’t so mystical. There’s no sorcery or witchcraft involved, but there is a secret formula. And now you have it, too!
It’s a unique process for everyone, but emulating these qualities is a good first step. It’s important to internalize these qualities to reach our language learning goals just like the good language learners of the world.
But remember: All of this information is futile if you don’t apply it. So take action, Newly Enlightened One, and start practicing right now!
And One More Thing...
If you dig the idea of learning on your own time from the comfort of your smart device with real-life authentic language content, you'll love using FluentU.
With FluentU, you'll learn real languages—as they're spoken by native speakers. FluentU has a wide variety of videos as you can see here:
FluentU has interactive captions that let you tap on any word to see an image, definition, audio and useful examples. Now native language content is within reach with interactive transcripts.
Didn't catch something? Go back and listen again. Missed a word? Hover your mouse over the subtitles to instantly view definitions.
You can learn all the vocabulary in any video with FluentU's "learn mode." Swipe left or right to see more examples for the word you’re learning.
And FluentU always keeps track of vocabulary that you’re learning. It gives you extra practice with difficult words—and reminds you when it’s time to review what you’ve learned. You get a truly personalized experience.
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