{"id":69920,"date":"2018-06-20T19:09:14","date_gmt":"2018-06-20T23:09:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/learn\/informal-italian\/"},"modified":"2025-05-27T08:55:01","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T12:55:01","slug":"informal-italian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/informal-italian\/","title":{"rendered":"Informal Italian: How and When to Use It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Italians are well known for their casual and informal approach to language, but as an Italian learner, it may be more difficult to know when and how to use informal Italian speech.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing which situations allow for informal speech and how to use it is crucial to navigating Italian conversations. It&#8217;s an important part of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/conversational-italian\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">everyday speaking<\/a> and etiquette.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound tricky, but don&#8217;t worry: This post will be your guide to figuring out <strong>the essentials of informal Italian<\/strong>, which, thankfully for you, is pretty straightforward in Italian.<\/p>\n<p>[fluentu-toc]<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>Just What Is Informal Italian?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36669\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/nick-fewings-x7zoInEwk-M-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"Men sit around playing a game in Naples, Italy\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Informal language<\/strong> is the way people speak in very casual conversations\u2014with friends, immediate family members, peers and anyone else you feel very close to.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not the kind of language you use to speak to someone in a position of authority or respect like a boss, an older person or a police officer.<\/p>\n<p>Informal speech in Italian is made by changing the grammatical structure of sentences\u2014with <strong>different\u00a0verb conjugation and pronoun use.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>The Grammar of Informal Italian<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36635\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/pexels-fabio-mariano-4046386.jpg\" alt=\"Michelangelo's &quot;David&quot; in Florence.\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As we discussed earlier, informal Italian revolves around grammar. Speaking Italian informally almost entirely comes down to the choices you make with your words, based around <strong>a certain set of grammatical rules.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Mastering conjugations<\/h3>\n<p>The big key to informal Italian is mastering the pronoun\u00a0<strong><em>tu\u00a0<\/em>(you). <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are two different ways to say the singular &#8220;you&#8221; in Italian:\u00a0<em>tu\u00a0<\/em>and <em>Lei,\u00a0<\/em>with <strong>the former being informal and the latter being the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/italian-formal-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">formal Italian &#8220;you.&#8221;<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Other pronouns such as <em>voi<\/em> (you all) and <em>io\u00a0<\/em>(I) can be used in either formal or informal situations, with some particular exceptions like\u00a0<em>egli\u00a0<\/em>(he) being formal.<\/p>\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thoughtco.com\/tables-of-regular-italian-verb-endings-4088101\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">good set of verb conjugation tables<\/a> is crucial for this purpose. Keep in mind that some verbs are irregular and don&#8217;t follow the rules. You can check the conjugation of any specific verb at the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.italian-verbs.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">incredibly useful Italian Verbs website<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>Being informal<\/h3>\n<p>Making a conversation casual can often revolve around simply conjugating your verbs properly to suit the use of\u00a0<em>tu<\/em>. For example, for the sentence &#8220;You have a job.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Formal:<\/strong><em>Lei ha un lavoro.<\/em><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Informal:<\/strong><em>Tu hai un lavoro<\/em>. or<br \/>\n<em>Hai un lavoro<\/em>.<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another example, using the phrase &#8220;How are you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Formal:<\/strong><em>Come sta Lei?<\/em><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Informal:<\/strong><em>Come stai?<\/em><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A small difference in writing, but a big one in manners.<\/p>\n<p>This specific example uses a common term, but the key difference is in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.italian-verbs.com\/italian-verbs\/conjugation.php?parola=stare\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">how the verb\u00a0<em>stare\u00a0<\/em>(to be \/ to stay) is conjugated<\/a>. Just knowing how to change one little syllable can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/please-in-italian\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">make you seem polite<\/a> (or casual) in an Italian conversation.<\/p>\n<p>To take one more example, check out these two different ways of greeting someone:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Formal:<\/strong> <em>Salve, piacere di conoscerla<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Informal:<\/strong> <em>Ciao, piacere di conoscerti<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Both of these mean &#8220;Hello, pleased to meet you.&#8221; The key difference is in the greeting (<em>&#8220;salve&#8221;<\/em> is polite while <em>&#8220;ciao&#8221;<\/em> is very casual) and the conjugation of\u00a0<em>conoscere <\/em>(to know someone).<\/p>\n<p>If you want to know how to speak informally, <strong>figuring out just how\u00a0<em>tu\u00a0<\/em>works in any situation is the way to go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Make sure to pay close attention to how it&#8217;s conjugated when reviewing your verbs, and take note of when it&#8217;s used in immersive material like dialogues and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/learn-italian-news-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Italian media<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>The Informal Imperative<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36636\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/pexels-josh-hild-2422461.jpg\" alt=\"The skyline of Rome, Italy\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Informal language doesn&#8217;t just come down to knowing how to use\u00a0<em>tu<\/em>, though. You can also use the imperative informally.<\/p>\n<h3>Issuing commands<\/h3>\n<p>The imperative form is typically <strong>used for direct orders and requests,<\/strong> as well as in some other situations such as when asking questions.<\/p>\n<p>The imperative tense is usually only used in reference to second-person pronouns like\u00a0<em>tu\u00a0<\/em>and <i>voi<\/i>. This is because this form tells another person to do something directly.<\/p>\n<p>The conjugation of these words naturally varies, so <strong>it&#8217;s important to know your way around conjugating Italian verbs when figuring out the imperative tense.\u00a0<\/strong>You can learn how to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thoughtco.com\/the-imperative-mood-in-italian-4072739\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">conjugate the imperative form at ThoughtCo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some examples:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Mangia!<\/em> Eat!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Senti!<\/em> \u2014 Listen!<\/p>\n<p>The <strong>negative imperative<\/strong> is typically used when you&#8217;re telling someone not to do something. These can usually just be formed with an\u00a0<em>non\u00a0<\/em>and an infinitive, like this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Non correre!<\/em> \u2014 Don&#8217;t run!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Non parlare!<\/em> \u2014 Don&#8217;t speak!<\/p>\n<p>When the verb is <strong>reflexive,<\/strong> the pronoun is added in on the end. Take a look:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Lavati!<\/em> \u2014 Wash up!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Fermati!<\/em> \u2014 Stop that!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re trying to <strong>specify who or what a negative imperative is referring to,<\/strong> you&#8217;ll also add the pronouns onto the end, this time for an infinitive:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Non toccarlo!<\/em> \u2014 Don&#8217;t touch it!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Non darmelo!<\/em> \u2014 Don&#8217;t give it to me!<em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Informal imperatives are often a little fragmented, said like an interjection. This isn&#8217;t exclusive, however, and they can be found in fuller sentences:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Mangia la cena adesso!<\/em> \u2014 Eat your dinner now!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em>Lavati prima di uscire!<\/em> \u2014 Wash up before leaving!<\/p>\n<h2>Italian Informal Slang<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/naman-pandey-ecN9ZRcaglA-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"A narrow street in Rome, Italy\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another big aspect of informal language is slang, and Italians love slang. Here are some informal Italian slang key terms:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Che figata!<\/em> \u2014 How cool!<\/li>\n<li><em>Magari!<\/em> \u2014 I wish!<\/li>\n<li><em>Mamma mia!<\/em> \u2014 Wow!<\/li>\n<li><em>Boh<\/em> \u2014 I don&#8217;t know<\/li>\n<li><em>Dai!<\/em> \u2014 Come on!<\/li>\n<li><em>Pigiato<\/em> \u2014 Drunk<\/li>\n<li><em>Figo, Figa<\/em> \u2014 Cool, attractive<\/li>\n<li><em>Piantala<\/em>! \u2014 Cut it out!<\/li>\n<li><em>Sei uno spasso!<\/em> \u2014 You&#8217;re hilarious!<\/li>\n<li><em>Scialla<\/em> \u2014 Take it easy<\/li>\n<li><em>Che palle!<\/em> \u2014 How boring!<\/li>\n<li><em>Sfigato, sfigata<\/em> \u2014 Loser<\/li>\n<li><em>Che casino!<\/em> \u2014 What a mess!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For much more Italian informal slang, check out this post:<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/italian\/<\/p>\n<h2>Informal Italian Pronunciation<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36670\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/matheus-ferrero-TkrRvwxjb_8-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"Four friends talk and laugh at a viewpoint\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Informal pronunciation in Italian encompasses various features that distinguish casual speech from formal language.<\/p>\n<p>One notable aspect is the <strong>assimilation (making different sounds the same) or elision (leaving out) of certain sounds<\/strong>, contributing to a relaxed and colloquial atmosphere. This can involve dropping unstressed vowels or merging them with adjacent sounds, altering the pronunciation of words.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, informal speech may exhibit a more <strong>fluid and connected rhythm<\/strong>, with a tendency to blend words together. Consonant sounds might be softened, and there may be a greater tolerance for slurring or rapid articulation.<\/p>\n<p>These aspects of informal pronunciation not only reflect a sense of informality but also enhance the natural flow of conversation.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Informal Italian: How and When to Use It<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-36637\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/site\/\/2\/pexels-pixabay-208701.jpg\" alt=\"A canal in Venice, Italy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When to Use Informal Language<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Knowing when to use informal Italian is important. Your choice in the matter is directly related to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cntraveler.com\/stories\/2008-05-09\/etiquette-101-the-mediterranean\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">having good manners<\/a>.\u00a0<strong>Using it in the wrong situation could make you seem downright rude,<\/strong> and that&#8217;s something no language learner wants.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Using formal Italian<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Formal Italian is best for, well, formal occasions\u00a0like meeting an important figure or speaking to someone you don&#8217;t know. It&#8217;s also used in professional settings, like <a href=\"http:\/\/businessculture.org\/southern-europe\/business-culture-in-italy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">business meetings<\/a> or when talking to someone higher on the social hierarchy than you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Speaking with formal Italian is a show of respect<\/strong> so it&#8217;s a good idea to use it anytime you want to seem courteous. Feel free to use it anytime you want to seem well-mannered.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Using informal Italian<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Informal Italian, on the other hand, is for when you want to be casual.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s typically best used around family and close friends, but it can also be used on social &#8220;subordinates&#8221; like young children or people below you on the corporate ladder.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s important to be mindful of which form you use<\/strong> and when, because it can make a big difference in your etiquette.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to choose your level of formality<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It can be tough to figure out which type of language to use, and a little unnerving when you consider the social importance of it. Here are a few tips for figuring out formality level:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"margin-bottom: 12px;\"><strong>Follow your\u00a0conversation partner&#8217;s example.<\/strong> If they speak informally with you (and they&#8217;re not in some position of power over you), you can probably do the same without an issue.<\/li>\n<li style=\"margin-bottom: 12px;\"><strong>When in doubt, default to formal.<\/strong> It&#8217;s ultimately the safe move. Being formal around close friends is a little weird, but being overly casual in a formal setting can be a big social faux-pas.<\/li>\n<li style=\"margin-bottom: 12px;\"><strong>Listen to authentic speech.<\/strong> As they say, practice makes perfect! The more authentic conversations you hear, the better you&#8217;ll get at judging when it&#8217;s okay to be informal and when it&#8217;s better to button up and dial up the formality.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>To dive deeper into informal Italian, check out this video:<\/p>\n<p><lite-youtube videoid=\"dv0223VSF7s\"><\/lite-youtube><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Informal Italian can often come down to just knowing how to wrangle a verb and conjugate the pronoun\u00a0<em>tu.<\/em> Don&#8217;t be so formal all the time!<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>And One More Thing...<\/h2>\r\n<p>\r\nIf you're as busy as most of us, you don't always have time for lengthy language lessons. <strong><a data-bid=\"1\" data-no-instant=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/try\/april-sale-3331\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> The solution? 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Tap on any word to instantly see an image, in-context definition, example sentences and other videos in which the word is used.\r\n<\/p>\r\n<a data-bid=\"1\" data-no-instant=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/try\/april-sale-3331\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2755\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Italian-2.jpg\" alt=\"learn-italian-with-captioned-videos\" width=\"307\" height=\"546\" \/><\/a>\r\n<p>\r\nAccess a complete interactive transcript of every video under the <strong>Dialogue<\/strong> tab, and review words and phrases with convenient audio clips under <strong>Vocab<\/strong>.\r\n<\/p>\r\n<a data-bid=\"1\" data-no-instant=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/try\/april-sale-3331\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2555\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Italian-6.jpg\" alt=\"learn-conversational-italian-with-subtitled-dialogue\" width=\"307\" height=\"546\" \/><\/a>\r\n<p>\r\nOnce you've watched a video, you can use FluentU's <strong>quizzes<\/strong> to actively practice all the vocabulary in that video. 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