{"id":181961,"date":"2020-07-22T19:23:21","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T23:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/learn\/chinese-feelings\/"},"modified":"2025-01-21T05:46:08","modified_gmt":"2025-01-21T10:46:08","slug":"chinese-feelings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/chinese\/chinese-feelings\/","title":{"rendered":"Chinese Feelings: How to Express Your Emotions Like a Native Speaker"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As humans, we talk about our emotions all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s feelings towards other people, behaviors or inanimate objects, we like to let others know how we feel.<\/p>\n<p>In this post, you&#8217;ll learn the Chinese feelings vocabulary you need to describe your emotions with confidence.<\/p>\n<p>[fluentu-toc skip=3]<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>How to Say &#8220;Emotion&#8221; in Chinese<\/h2>\n<p>Here are some of the translations for &#8220;feeling&#8221; and &#8220;emotion.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Most of these words won&#8217;t be relevant to beginners, but they&#8217;re great for progressing into the intermediate and advanced language stages, as they <strong>add a poetic touch to speech and writing<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-767777\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-767777\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\"><strong>Chinese<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-2\"><strong>Pinyin<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-3\"><strong>English<\/strong><\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-5e06a064dc42f46d0107e8d8d52b7a10-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u8877\u60c5         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>zh\u014dng q\u00edng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">inner emotions<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-e23c99b194ace625bd31e22b4efe8441-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u611f\u53d7         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>g\u01cen sh\u00f2u<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to sense, to feel, to experience; feeling<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-54732130e8bf064add883721e5d5d9ba-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u8868\u60c5         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>bi\u01ceo q\u00edng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">facial expression, expression<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-52c4fd5ed4b3ea92fec500f7c2dab988-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u611f\u60c5         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>g\u01cen q\u00edng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">emotion, sentiment, affection; feelings between two people<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-1c5b87301a6f66adcdc261eb8a09db18-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u611f\u89c9         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>g\u01cen ju\u00e9<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to feel; feeling, sense, perception<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-cfb785e49b0ab1cb160782c0bf7a7e8c-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u89c9\u5f97         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>ju\u00e9 de<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to feel; to think<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-78c1f15f2f92b992a37555468e59b962-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5fc3\u91cc\u8bdd        <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bn l\u01d0 hu\u00e0<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to express one's true feelings, to express what's on one's mind<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-994bd547158169d08bb654c170fd0443-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5fc3\u58f0         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bn sh\u0113ng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">thoughts, feelings, inner voice<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-8bf6f4027dc1be46767e887df9a8f580-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5fc3\u5c16         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bn ji\u0101n<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">bottom of one's heart, innermost feelings<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-11\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-868e2711171ec765c0493ce43244501b-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u60c5\u612b         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>q\u00edng s\u00f9<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">sentiment, feeling<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<!-- #tablepress-767777 from cache -->\n<p>\u611f\u89c9 or \u89c9\u5f97 are most commonly used when discussing feelings.<\/p>\n<p>To make an &#8220;I feel&#8221; statement, you could say \u6211\u611f\u89c9 or \u6211\u89c9\u5f97, followed by any emotion listed.<\/p>\n<p>To say &#8220;I am very,&#8221; your statement would start with \u6211\u5f88 <em>(w\u01d2 h\u011bn)<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>You also have the option of removing \u5f88 if you want to say &#8220;I am&#8221; rather than &#8220;I am very.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>Positive Feelings in Chinese<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/group-of-happy-people-throwing-snow.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-61767\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/group-of-happy-people-throwing-snow.jpg\" alt=\"Group Of Happy People Throwing Snow\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Onto happy things now!<\/p>\n<p>Here are terms to describe your positive emotions. Notice how there are tons of different ways to say &#8220;happy&#8221; in Chinese.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-777777\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-777777\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\"><strong>Chinese<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-2\"><strong>Pinyin<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-3\"><strong>English<\/strong><\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-ae9cfaa41b07b1a4729992b420e1016b-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5f00\u5fc3         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>k\u0101i x\u012bn<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to feel happy; to have a great time<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-4e5d2ea4d3a842a8c1a13f7fb8f11927-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u9ad8\u5174         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>g\u0101o x\u00ecng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">happy, glad, in a cheerful mood<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-97433a189601625e433c57e72b92fa08-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u559c\u6ecb\u6ecb         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u01d0 z\u012b z\u012b<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">happy<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-ecab7c688d02ec8ab42a657799bf5006-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5feb\u6d3b         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>ku\u00e0i huo<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">happy, cheerful<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-6fc5604429294709230eff0d16f09c7b-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u6b23\u559c         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bn x\u01d0<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">happy, joyful<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-e1d3a00d314db5d805b11cf8cda0d98c-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5bbd\u5fc3         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>ku\u0101n x\u012bn<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to feel relieved; to feel relaxed<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-095cd8b0b87de6cdf3852bd9dedf393e-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u6ee1\u8db3         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>m\u01cen z\u00fa<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">contented, to be contented, to feel satisfied<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-0c70a6d3b6f267329a3310e107863352-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5174\u594b         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bng f\u00e8n<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be excited<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-8f402666e095965e510c26c49daf4438-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u604b\u7231         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>li\u00e0n \u00e0i<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be in love<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-11\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-e74fd0d4b08cb402a748a4352e5daee6-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u60ca\u5947         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>j\u012bng q\u00ed<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be amazed; to be surprised<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<!-- #tablepress-777777 from cache -->\n<p>To use these terms in sentences, follow the formulas shared above. Here are a couple of examples of how you might express positive emotions.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u6211\u5f88\u60ca\u5947<\/strong>\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 h\u011bn j\u012bng q\u00ed.)<\/em> \u2014 I am so amazed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u6211\u611f\u89c9\u6ee1\u8db3<\/strong>\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 g\u01cen ju\u00e9 m\u01cen z\u00fa.)<\/em> \u2014 I feel content.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u6211\u5f88\u5bbd\u5fc3<\/strong>\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 h\u011bn ku\u0101n x\u012bn.)<\/em> \u2014 I am very relieved.<\/p>\n<h2>Negative Feelings in Chinese<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/stressed-man-sitting-down-outside.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-61768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/stressed-man-sitting-down-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Stressed Man Sitting Down Outside\" width=\"500\" height=\"334\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not feeling like your best self?<\/p>\n<p>Here are the terms to use when expressing those not-so-positive feelings.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-787777\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-787777\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\"><strong>Chinese<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-2\"><strong>Pinyin<\/strong><\/th><th class=\"column-3\"><strong>English<\/strong><\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-81bb8258c3e067a6210d66ec54b0be78-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u60b2\u4f24         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>b\u0113i sh\u0101ng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">sad, sorrowful, mournful<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-3886d59ab97e0334d26846c38d1ab7c2-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u4f24\u5fc3         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>sh\u0101ng x\u012bn<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">brokenhearted, sad<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-8790adb3c6ecacb450c39c4d55bc53e7-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u7126\u6025         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>ji\u0101o j\u00ed<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">anxious, worried, restless<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-c4fd88882fb1c790ce4da127ea6afa87-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u7d2f\u6b7b         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>l\u00e8i s\u01d0<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">exhausted, worn out<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-5150cb68dd8754835497f6bbbaa3d474-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5bb3\u6015         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>h\u00e0i p\u00e0<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be afraid, to be scared<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-149dca27df96a839a704e5266dedaac5-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5fc3\u5bd2         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>x\u012bn h\u00e1n<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be very disappointed<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-272ce7c981ed9f8e624d2f980e5b3a6c-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u751f\u6c14         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>sh\u0113ng q\u00ec<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">to be angry<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-9e431bc4cae7544fa4c415f29355a42c-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u7d27\u5f20         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>j\u01d0n zh\u0101ng<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">nervous, tense<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-4a8198eca1842cac67b8da92287e0b83-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u5c34\u5c2c         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>g\u0101n g\u00e0<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">awkward, embarrassed<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-11\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/v1-5f9f32a61df9de97edab15e83c2d697e-neural-Zhiyu.mp3\" class=\"tts-link\">\u95f7\u95f7\u4e0d\u4e50         <\/a>\n    <\/td><td class=\"column-2\"><i>m\u00e8n m\u00e8n b\u00f9 l\u00e8<\/i><\/td><td class=\"column-3\">depressed, unhappy<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<!-- #tablepress-787777 from cache -->\n<p>Following the formulas above, here are a few sentences you might say when expressing negative emotions.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u6211\u7d2f\u6b7b\u4e86<\/strong>\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 l\u00e8i s\u01d0le.)<\/em> \u2014 I am exhausted.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><strong>\u6211\u89c9\u5f97\u7d27\u5f20<\/strong>\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 ju\u00e9 d\u00e9 j\u01d0n zh\u0101ng.)<\/em> \u2014 I feel nervous.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u6211\u5f88\u751f\u6c14\u3002<em>(w\u01d2 h\u011bn sh\u0113ng q\u00ec.)<\/em> \u2014 I am very angry.<\/p>\n<h2>How Native Speakers Actually Express Their Feelings<\/h2>\n<p>Again, it&#8217;s up to you whether you&#8217;d like to share your feelings, given that the context is appropriate and non-offensive for you or the audience. If you want to do as the locals do, then talk about your emotions roundaboutly.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how you can do that.<\/p>\n<h3>Share feelings of love through song<\/h3>\n<p>If you&#8217;re feeling brave, you can dedicate a Jay Chou love song to your partner at a KTV (a place where you sing karaoke).<\/p>\n<p>You can also go for one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/chinese\/2020\/03\/30\/best-chinese-songs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">classic hits from Teresa Teng<\/a>, such as &#8220;The Moon Represents My Heart.&#8221; There are a lot of different KTV hits to choose from. There are also many songs on the language learning program FluentU, which has hundreds of videos (not just music videos) paired with learning tools. <span data-sheets-root=\"1\"><p><strong>FluentU<\/strong> takes authentic videos\u2014like music videos, movie trailers, news and inspiring talks\u2014and turns them into personalized language learning lessons.<\/p>\r\n<p><\/p>\r\n<p>You can try FluentU for free for 2 weeks. Check out the website or download <a href=\"https:\/\/apps.apple.com\/us\/app\/fluentu-learn-language-videos\/id917892175\">the iOS app<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/play.google.com\/store\/apps\/details?id=com.fluentflix.fluentu&amp;hl=en&amp;gl=US\">Android app.<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><i><a data-bid=\"1\" data-no-instant=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/try\/april-sale-3331\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">P.S. Click here to take advantage of our current sale! (Expires at the end of this month.)<\/a><\/i>\r\n<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\r\n  <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/NativeAd-Chinese.jpg\" alt=\"FluentU Ad\" \/>\r\n  <p style=\"text-align: center\">\r\n    <button class=\"btn-blue\" style=\"border: none;font-size: 18px;text-align: center;padding: 0.75rem 1.5rem;cursor: pointer\">\r\n      Try FluentU for FREE!\r\n    <\/button>\r\n  <\/p>\r\n<\/a>\r\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Talk about your relationship through proverbs<\/h3>\n<p>Rather than simply saying you love someone, take it a step further and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/chinese\/i-love-you-in-mandarin-chinese\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">use proverbs to describe the relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Was it love at first sight, or \u4e00\u89c1\u949f\u60c5 <em>(y\u00ed ji\u00e0n zh\u014dng q\u00edng)<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>Did your significant other stand out from the crowd?<\/p>\n<p>If so, you could say \u5404\u82b1\u5165\u5404\u773c <em>(g\u00e8 hu\u0101 r\u00f9 g\u00e8 y\u01cen)<\/em>, meaning &#8220;Different flowers match different eyes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3>Use number slang<\/h3>\n<p>A modern way to express your feelings is through number slang. 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In the East, <strong>actions speak louder than words<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>They might also show emotions, rather than verbally communicating, by using facial expressions or changing their intonation while speaking.<\/p>\n<p>Overtly expressing positive or negative feelings is just not very common in Chinese culture.<\/p>\n<h3>To express or not to express your emotions in Chinese<\/h3>\n<p>Emotions are like data\u2014they communicate meaning and intent.<\/p>\n<p>However, with seemingly opposing cultural beliefs between the East and the West, it might not be very clear for you as an English speaker to know whether it&#8217;s okay to talk about your feelings in Chinese.<\/p>\n<p>When talking among friends, <strong>you can express positive and negative feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s<strong>\u00a0best to refrain from sharing negative sentiments<\/strong> when speaking with acquaintances, elders or in your place of work if you work with Chinese speakers. Expressing negative emotions could cause you to lose face\u2014a Chinese cultural no-no.<\/p>\n<p>Again, <strong>if you have positive feelings, don&#8217;t be afraid to share them<\/strong>. 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