{"id":179923,"date":"2021-06-18T18:16:53","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T22:16:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/learn\/speak-confident-english\/"},"modified":"2025-01-30T04:17:13","modified_gmt":"2025-01-30T09:17:13","slug":"speak-confident-english","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/english\/speak-confident-english\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips to Speak Confident English and Conquer Your Language Fears"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One wrong step and you\u2019ll fall to your doom. That\u2019s what it\u2019s like to be on a tightrope.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">With English too, you might say every word carefully because you\u2019re scared of making a mistake. And you might dread coming up blank when you can\u2019t remember the right word&#8211;with everyone looking at you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The moment that you slip, you don\u2019t know what to say anymore. You might even be tempted to drop it all in the moment and go back to a language that you\u2019re much more comfortable with.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The good thing is, it\u2019s a lot <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">safer<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> to speak in English than being on a tightrope, thousands of miles high above the ground. But actually, being able to speak confident English is possible. And it\u2019s not just possible, but it\u2019s inevitable if you follow the right steps.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Let\u2019s face it: picking up a language as an adult is a challenge. But that doesn\u2019t mean that your English has to be perfect for you to be confident in it. Confidence can be boiled down to hours and hours of practice along with being able to fall down repeatedly&#8211;and then picking yourself back up and letting yourself enjoy the process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In this post, we\u2019ve gathered our <\/span><b>most actionable tips for speaking English confidently<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. There are no shortcuts, but you\u2019ll be proud of yourself once you test these out and see how much progress you\u2019re making:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Read, listen, and watch to your heart\u2019s content<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Are you a movie buff? Or maybe you\u2019re more into fiction books, or cooking shows, or binge-worthy podcasts while working out. Whatever it is, there\u2019s probably a form of media that you\u2019re happy to consume for hours \u2013 and that should be part of your language learning plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To speak English confidently, you\u2019ll need to have a secure foundation in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400\">understanding the language. Aside from having English conversations, it\u2019s also important to balance this out with tons of input \u2013 specifically <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.leonardoenglish.com\/blog\/comprehensible-input\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>comprehensible input<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, where you understand the general message even though you might know every single word in it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The more comprehensible input that you take in, the more your brain will intuitively understand the language. Eventually, you might even surprise yourself by blurting out sentences in correct English without thinking too hard about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Textbooks can only take you so far, so the key to getting yourself addicted to learning is by <\/span><b>choosing comprehensible input that you like<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Yes, you have the permission to go all out on what you love watching, reading, or listening to \u2013 the catch is it has to be in English.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Imitate how native English speakers talk<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Here\u2019s a fun tip: instead of watching English videos passively, go one step further and <\/span><b>try to imitate how the people in the video talk<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. When a sentence sounds complicated, hit pause on the video, then record yourself saying it out loud. You can then compare the difference.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Regardless of your level of English, this is a helpful exercise. You don\u2019t often notice how you sound when you talk, so catching it on recording will help you see where to improve your pronunciation and intonation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Scouting for videos can seem like a wild hunt because you\u2019d want ones that are close to your English level. You\u2019ll have a much easier time with<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">FluentU<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, which takes authentic videos \u2013 like music videos, movie trailers, news, and inspiring talks \u2013 and turns them into personalized language lessons. It has tons of fun clips that you can select by level. The spaced repetition system also allows you to solidify your knowledge and build speaking confidence with ease.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For focusing on single words, you can use an English dictionary app like<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vocabulary.com\/dictionary\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Vocabulary.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> or<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dictionary.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dictionary.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Each word listed here has a sound clip for the pronunciation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Practice confident body language<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When you imagine someone who\u2019s confident at speaking English, what comes to mind? They can speak smoothly and clearly in English, yes, but they also have the body language to match that. Around other people, they\u2019re smiling and making gestures at the right moment, and they\u2019re making direct eye contact while keeping their voice firm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Body language can be incredibly underrated when it comes to fluency, but <\/span><b>how you hold yourself says a lot about how confident you are in the language<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. If you want an accurate look at your body language while speaking in English, take a video of yourself. Are your gestures matching up with your words?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>4. Change your environment<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If your goal is to speak well in English, there\u2019s one piece of advice that\u2019s often brought up: move to an English-speaking country so you won\u2019t have a choice but to talk in English constantly. This isn\u2019t realistic for everyone, though. Besides, English is so common all over the world that you can recreate a similar environment, wherever you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Start with baby steps. Buy more English books and stash them in your room so you\u2019re more likely to read them. Listen to more English playlists, try to look for dubbed English versions when you watch movies, or even change the language on your phone or computer to English. You can even sign up for online meetups or events where the default language is English.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You might still be tripping up sometimes, but one main benefit of this is psychological: you\u2019ll be <\/span><b>less self-conscious when you\u2019re using English constantly<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. You\u2019ll know it\u2019s working when you catch yourself automatically thinking in English \u2013 no extra translation needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>5. Seek out conversations<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You probably already know this, but it\u2019s a hard truth: the only way to become confident in speaking English is to do it more often. Aside from changing your environment, you\u2019ll have to take the plunge and <\/span><b>actively seek out people that you can talk to in English<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The first few times are often the hardest. It can be an adjustment to go from structured exercises to keeping pace with a conversation, especially as the topics get more varied and complicated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are several options for this, each with its own pros and cons:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Chatting with <\/span><b>other people learning English<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> can be enjoyable because you can help each other improve and study together. However, there\u2019s the risk of repeating each other\u2019s mistakes, so they shouldn\u2019t be the only people that you\u2019re talking to in English.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Native English speakers<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> are definitely among the best conversational partners. You can learn a lot just by absorbing the vocabulary words that they use, and you\u2019ll also pick up on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/examples.yourdictionary.com\/20-examples-of-slang-language.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">slang words<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> and cultural nuances. The downside is they might not be the best at explaining certain language concepts because English is too instinctive for them.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>English tutors<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> are great for giving you focused attention and drilling you in certain areas of your speaking. A popular online platform for this is <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/italki.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">iTalki<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, where you can book one-on-one tutoring sessions for different languages, including English. On the other hand, tutoring sessions can be costly, especially if you\u2019re hoping to do them multiple times a week.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><b>6. Spend time on your pronunciation\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When you\u2019re sure that you know the right pronunciation for words, then you can be much more confident in speaking English.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For one, <\/span><b>try to figure out which English sounds you find the hardest to pronounce<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. For example, you might be able to say them on their own, but they blur together with other sounds when you speak in a sentence.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Look up the exact position of your mouth and tongue for those sounds, then practice it every day. This is more or less muscle memory \u2013 your mouth has to get physically used to saying those sounds.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>7. Don\u2019t be too self-conscious about your accent\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One of the main reasons why people feel shy or anxious about speaking in English is their accent. It can be scary to say a sentence out loud \u2013 and then to be laughed at or made fun of because of how you\u2019re pronouncing it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">For one, <\/span><b>there are many, many English accents out there<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, even in native English-speaking countries such as the US, UK, and Australia. Aside from English speakers in these three countries having different accents from each other, you\u2019ll also encounter different accents inside the countries themselves. This isn\u2019t even counting all of the<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/edition.cnn.com\/travel\/article\/english-speaking-countries\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">non-native English speaking countries<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> where people are fluent in English as a second language but they have their own distinct accent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Your accent is hugely affected by your environment, so changing it usually means consciously working on your pronunciation or moving to another location. While you can always aim for a more standard English accent, it\u2019s actually okay too as long as you and the other person understand each other.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>8. Identify areas that you want to improve in<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Most of the time, people aren\u2019t confident in speaking English because they\u2019re very much aware of where they can still improve. You probably have an idea of your own strengths and weaknesses when it comes to English. Maybe you\u2019re great at reading, but it\u2019s harder to speak continuously. Or maybe you can think of the words clearly, but there are some sounds that you struggle to pronounce, such as \u201cth.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Whatever your areas of improvement are, confronting them and actively working on them will help you feel much more confident. One thing that you can do is to <\/span><b>focus on a specific part of your English speaking that you want to improve<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. You can then look up online guides, blog posts, and videos about it \u2013 you\u2019re guaranteed to find a ton of tips since so many people have probably struggled with it before.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">From there, create a short plan that you can follow every day to work on your weaknesses. For example, if it\u2019s hard to speak continuously, then force yourself to keep talking in one-on-one conversations. You\u2019ll eventually adapt, especially when the other person\u2019s willing to correct you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>9. Don\u2019t be afraid to ask for clarification<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Another reason why you might get nervous when speaking English is the<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/06\/how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-making-mistakes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">fear of making mistakes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. In a real-life conversation, the other person might say something that you\u2019re having a hard time understanding, and it can be intimidating to ask them to repeat it or to explain to you what they meant.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Unless you\u2019re in a time-pressured situation, people generally won\u2019t mind clarifying. In fact, they\u2019ll feel better about you fully understanding them rather than if you try to guess instead (and maybe guess wrong).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Here are some phrases that you can use to check in:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">I\u2019m sorry, I didn\u2019t catch that. Did you say\u2026?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ah, could you repeat that?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Oh, do you mean\u2026?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><b>10. Diversify your English<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">English may not have the same emphasis on several levels of politeness as Japanese, but it\u2019s still fairly complex, with its own vocabulary for specific situations. You might say \u201cHowdy!\u201d playfully to a friend, but greeting a senior colleague that you\u2019ve never talked to like that might not be appropriate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">On top of this, there\u2019s specialized vocabulary. \u201dChocolate\u201d and \u201cmeat\u201d are common enough, but what if you go into more specific terms such as \u201ccheesecake\u201d and \u201cmarinade\u201d? If you use English professionally, that also has its own set of expressions, ranging from \u201cscreen-sharing\u201d to \u201cmeeting agenda.\u201d That\u2019s not even going into slang like \u201cchill out\u201d and \u201cunfriend.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Instead of relying only on vocabulary lists, the best way to absorb these is to <\/span><b>expose yourself to diverse settings in English<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. You\u2019ll discover new vocabulary at a restaurant, at an international conference in your field, and even at a comedy show. This way, you\u2019ll gradually pick up the right contexts for certain words and phrases.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The road to speaking English confidently involves <\/span><b>embracing your mistakes and constantly learning from them.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> One aspect of it is working on your pronunciation and overall fluency, while the other is mindset \u2013 facing your fears so you can get out there and talk to people in English outside of a classroom environment.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One wrong step and you\u2019ll fall to your doom. That\u2019s what it\u2019s like to be on a tightrope. 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