{"id":148612,"date":"2021-06-08T15:28:26","date_gmt":"2021-06-08T19:28:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/learn\/english-gestures\/"},"modified":"2025-01-30T04:24:24","modified_gmt":"2025-01-30T09:24:24","slug":"english-gestures","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/english\/english-gestures\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Essential English Gestures You Should Know to Advance Your Career"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine asking two people how they are, and both of them answer with, \u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, Person A says this with a smile, making direct eye contact with you with palms open by his side. On the other hand, Person B looks away and shrugs while rolling her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d is an English phrase that sounds perfectly neutral in writing. But when you\u2019re talking to people, the gestures that they make can add a whole new layer of meaning to their words. In this case, Person A seems to be sincere, while Person B seems more sarcastic or uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>For this reason, being fluent in English isn\u2019t only about knowing the vocabulary and grammar. You can take it up a notch by also <strong>understanding common English gestures.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><b>What are Gestures?<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Gestures are simply <\/span><b>movements of the body that communicate a certain message<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. The most obvious gestures are made by the hands and arms, but gestures made by other body parts are also meaningful. For example, you can already notice a lot based on a person\u2019s facial expression or posture.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Although people can make gestures on purpose, these are often unconscious and automatic. (Try recording yourself on video\u2013you\u2019ll be surprised at all of the gestures that you\u2019re making!) This is why they\u2019re often an effective way to tell how other people are genuinely feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Gestures are part of<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/research\/action\/speaking-of-psychology\/nonverbal-communication\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>nonverbal communication<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Psychologist<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/worldofwork.io\/2019\/07\/mehrabians-7-38-55-communication-model\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Albert Mehrabian<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> concluded that communication consists of the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">55% &#8211; body language and gestures<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">38% &#8211; tone of voice\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">7% &#8211; words<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Body language and gestures make up more than 50% of your communication. Your gestures might actually be speaking louder than your words!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Gestures can be different for each language<\/b> <b>too. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">English has its own unique gestures that might come off as strange when you use them with another language. For example, the English thumbs-up gesture is so widespread that it\u2019s already been turned into an emoji. But while it\u2019s generally taken as a positive gesture in English, it can be interpreted as being rude in other cultures.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Why Non-Verbal Communication Matters<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you\u2019re using English in the workplace, then learning about English gestures is a must. Here\u2019s why:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>You\u2019ll be able to read other people\u2019s reactions and adjust accordingly.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> If you\u2019re pitching to a client, being aware of their gestures can clue you in on whether they like or dislike what you just said.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>You\u2019ll convey your intentions with more accuracy.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> When your gestures and your words support each other, people get a very strong and clear message of what you\u2019re trying to say.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>You can express your personality better.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Smiling, nodding, and even raising your eyebrows at the right time adds a warmer touch to how you communicate.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>You\u2019ll showcase that you\u2019re comfortable with using English.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> By not only speaking with fluid vocabulary but also backing it up with appropriate gestures, you\u2019ll appear more confident and fluent.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">On top of these, <\/span><b>communication skills are highly sought after <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">at work. Whatever industry or job position you\u2019re in, both employers and clients appreciate<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebalancecareers.com\/communication-skills-list-2063779\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">strong communication skills<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Since most communication is nonverbal, being sensitive to English gestures is definitely part of that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What if you could also master English gestures along with vocabulary? Then you\u2019ll be really persuasive, with top-notch communication all around. Aside from getting your points across assertively, you\u2019ll perform even better at work because you\u2019ll find it easier to connect with others\u2013whether in an office or at a video call.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><b>Essential English Gestures That You Should Know About<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are possibly hundreds of English gestures out there, but we\u2019ve handpicked the English gestures that you\u2019ll encounter the most often at work.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Open Palms<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222011\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In this gesture, the hands are generally stretched out, with the palms facing up. You\u2019ll often notice this when people are moving their hands while talking. On the other hand, you might also be sitting down with someone at a table and they\u2019re resting their hands in this way. This signifies <\/span><b>openness and honesty.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When you\u2019re asking someone about their concerns or honest feedback, consider it a good sign if their palms are open.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Arms Crossed<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222013\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If a person\u2019s arms are crossed, it\u2019s considered as closed body language, which implies <\/span><b>defensiveness<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> or a refusal to connect. However, it isn\u2019t always black-and-white. Crossed arms can imply that the person might be feeling tense, afraid, or uncomfortable, but it\u2019s also connected to <\/span><b>problem-solving and perseverance<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. The person might just simply be trying to think their way through a problem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Since other people can interpret this as defensiveness, avoid crossing your arms when you\u2019re in an important discussion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Fingers or Foot Tapping<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You\u2019ve probably seen people tapping their fingers or feet repeatedly beforemaybe while listening to a presentation or sitting at a prolonged meeting. Here\u2019s what this gesture is saying: <\/span><b>\u201cI\u2019m feeling impatient.\u201d <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">People tend to do this because of either <\/span><b>boredom or anxiety.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Next time that you\u2019re speaking to a group, try to be observant of these cues\u2013and adjust your presentation to make it more engaging.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Nodding<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When someone\u2019s trying to explain their ideas to you, you can make them more comfortable by nodding along when they pause and saying, \u201cYeah,\u201d \u201cGo on,\u201d or \u201cMm-hm.\u201d Nodding means that <\/span><b>you agree with what the other person is saying<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. You might also nod while making verbal statements of agreement such as \u201cI see your point\u201d or \u201cThat\u2019s true\u201d for emphasis.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Although this might seem like a universal gesture, it actually isn\u2019t. Double-check before using it in a foreign culture\u2013some Eastern European countries interpret nodding as a \u201cno\u201d!<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Smiling<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222014\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-2-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-2-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In the English-speaking world, smiling is usually seen as polite, and it <\/span><b>helps make other people feel at ease.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Whether you\u2019re saying hello to a coworker or holding a meeting with a sponsor, smiling every now and then can break the ice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">One of the most natural times to smile would be when you\u2019re thanking someone. For example, you\u2019ll sound more sincere if you smile while saying, \u201cThank you for taking the time to meet about this.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Shrugging<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222015\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-3.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-3-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Shrugging is when someone raises their shoulders slightly then brings them back down again. It\u2019s a very casual gesture. You might not catch it at formal meetings, but if you\u2019re with coworkers that you\u2019re comfortable enough to be joking around with, shrugging tends to be more common.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What it communicates is <\/span><b>\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> with the implication that <\/span><b>they don\u2019t really care too much about it<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Shrugging is fine with friends, but avoid shrugging when you\u2019re in a serious business setting.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Thumbs Up\u00a0<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-4.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222016\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-4.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-4-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">In the English-speaking world, the thumbs up gesture appears more often on chat messages as an emoji. Another common scenario is during group video meetings, when one person\u2019s asking if everyone else agrees with a proposal or if everyone\u2019s free during a certain time. Since it\u2019s hard to talk all at once during video meetings, people simply use the thumbs up gesture to show that <\/span><b>they\u2019re okay with it.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> The thumbs up gesture can be offensive in certain countries such as Iraq and Russia. If you\u2019re communicating in English with someone who isn\u2019t a native speaker as well, make sure that it\u2019s a regular gesture in their culture of origin too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Eye Contact\u00a0<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-5.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222017\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-5.jpg 849w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-5-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Native English speakers often <\/span><b>maintain eye contact while talking\u2013<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">in other words, they look directly at the other person. Avoiding eye contact can make it seem as if you\u2019re hiding something or you\u2019re feeling intimidated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">During business meetings, hold eye contact every now and then with whoever you\u2019re talking to. This builds a sense of connectedness, and conversation will flow more easily. However, don\u2019t overdo it\u2013too much eye contact without any breaks might make you seem way too aggressive instead!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>High Five\u00a0<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/High-Five.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222018\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/High-Five.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/High-Five.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/High-Five-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/High-Five-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A high five can be a greeting as well as a <\/span><b>congratulatory English gesture<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. For example, you can shout out \u201cHigh five!\u201d to a friend while raising your open palm. Your friend then slaps their palm against yours. A more casual version of this would be the fist bump, where people touch their clenched fists together.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When someone from your team does a great job, you can congratulate them by giving them a high five. Since this is a casual gesture, it\u2019s more appropriate to do it with coworkers that you\u2019re on friendly terms with.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Index Finger to Lips<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/englash-gestures.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222019\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/englash-gestures.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/englash-gestures.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/englash-gestures-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/englash-gestures-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Putting your index finger to your lips is a widespread English gesture that means, <\/span><b>\u201cPlease be quiet\u201d or \u201cTone your voice down.\u201d<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> At work, a colleague might use this gesture when they\u2019re on a video call and can hear your voice in the background or when there are people having a meeting nearby. A stronger, more blunt version of this would be drawing your thumb and forefinger across your lips, like a zipper across your mouth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> As your first choice, it\u2019s always best to go with a simple, \u201cPlease tone your voice down\u201d since this gesture can come off as a bit abrupt.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Finger Crossed<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-6.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-222020\" src=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-6.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.fluentu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/english-gestures-6-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Native English speakers sometimes cross their index and middle fingers together as <\/span><b>a way of saying good luck<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. You can pair this gesture with statements like \u201cI hope everything goes well!\u201d or \u201cBest of luck, fingers crossed.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tip: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This gesture works whether you\u2019re wishing good luck for yourself or for others. In a professional context, it\u2019s rare to see this over video calls. Instead, it\u2019s more typically used in person by coworkers that you\u2019ve collaborated with closely and who know you fairly well.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Using English Gestures at Work<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Being aware of these essential English gestures can lead to a huge improvement in your communication skills in English. Let\u2019s explore how you can use English gestures in your everyday work interactions:<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Adopt open body language<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Although you can\u2019t always pay attention to your own gestures, a general rule of thumb is to adopt open body language, especially when you\u2019re in meetings or one-on-one conversations. On a nonverbal level, you\u2019re signaling to the other person that you\u2019re confident and willing to hear them out.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Here are the specifics:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Maintain an upright posture, with your body angled directly to the person.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> You can even lean in slightly to express attentiveness.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Make direct eye contact and smile occasionally.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Other people tend to mirror your body language unconsciously, so when you smile, they\u2019re likely to smile back.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Avoid crossing your arms or making unnecessary gestures.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Crossing your arms signals defensiveness and putting the other person at a distance. Unnecessary gestures such as tapping your fingers or playing with your hair can also give the impression that you\u2019re bored.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Use open hand gestures when you\u2019re speaking.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> If you\u2019re giving a long explanation or presenting to a group, moving your hands as you speak can help you look more engaging and animated.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Using the appropriate English gestures has a strong effect on how others see you. When you combine this with confident business vocabulary, people are likely to be more open to your ideas, and your presentations become even more engaging.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Be aware of others\u2019 gestures<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Communication is a two-way street, so understanding other\u2019s gestures will refine your own communication and put you in sync with them. This is invaluable, especially when you\u2019re doing sales,<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pon.harvard.edu\/daily\/negotiation-skills-daily\/negotiation-techniques-and-body-language-body-language-negotiation-examples-in-real-life\/#:~:text=Understanding%20body%20language%20in%20negotiation%20helps%20you%20become%20a%20more%20effective%20negotiator&amp;text=Without%20access%20to%20gestures%20and,other's%20tone%20and%20building%20rapport.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">negotiation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, or even conflict resolution. When you\u2019re sensitive to someone else\u2019s gestures, you\u2019ll know where to steer the conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Be on the lookout for these gestures:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Fidgeting, yawning, slouching, or doodling<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> &#8211; All of these are signs that the other person isn\u2019t paying attention. These happen more often in groups when someone\u2019s presenting as compared to one-on-one conversations.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Maintaining little eye contact<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> &#8211; The other person might be either intimidated or scared. They might also be trying to hide something. To get them to relax, you can shift to having open body language as described above.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Frowning or unchanging facial expression<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> &#8211; Most people will mirror your expression. If you\u2019re smiling at them but they remain stoic or frowning, it might mean that they\u2019re either uncomfortable or they don\u2019t agree with you.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Crossed arms arms <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#8211; Depending on the context, this can subtly imply that the other person is feeling closed off or doubtful. Try smiling at them then asking what they think to bring out their thoughts.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">While all of these gestures have common meanings, you\u2019ll still have to take into account what the person is saying along with what\u2019s actually happening. In any case, it doesn\u2019t hurt to adjust your approach then observe if their body language becomes more open and responsive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Conclusion\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Communication isn\u2019t limited to words. When more than 50% of communication is nonverbal, your physical gestures might even be sending out a stronger message than the words that you\u2019re saying.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To strengthen your message in English, your words and your gestures would have to match up. Being mindful of other people\u2019s gestures also makes you a better conversationalist, which can advance your career.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine asking two people how they are, and both of them answer with, \u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d However, Person A says this with a smile, making direct eye contact with you with&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":739,"featured_media":249360,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"slim_seo":{"description":"Fluency in English is about more than words. 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